Journey to parenthood~~ clueless mummy and daddy!

6 months pregnant and people started asking...
Dah start beli barang baby ke?
Bile nak beli barang baby?
We were like, eh dah kene beli ke???
We're still busy eating hihi~~

Anyway, masa tu baju pun da start tak muat..
skirt tak muat, sluar xmuat..
time for maternity clothes...!
and maternity wear adalah pricey~~~
i bought mostly from 9months and motherclub, ade kat klcc, pavilion n midvalley,
ade yg beli online, tp bile pakai mmg sgt comfy..hihi perut pun happy jer tau~~

Friends suggested to start beli brg baby sikit2..
so we decided to go to the first baby fair ever..xpernah terfikir akan pegi babyfair hehe..
mom n baby expo kat shah alam..
my oh my! sgt excited tgk ramai org!
dan clueless sgt2 tatau patutnya kene beli ape hihi
then, last2!
beli brg2 besar dulu haha..org ckp patutnya beli brg2 kecik dulu..aduhai!

Daddy pilih Quinny Zapp Xtra Red Revolution,
that time tatau gender baby lagi, hihi tapi takpe, merah pun boleh boy or girl.
this stroller mmg cool la, boleh pusing angkat lipat semua, tapi tataula nnt berjaya guna ke tak hehe..

We bought car seat compatible with Quinny, which is MaxiCosi Walnut brown ni,
comel sgt..i love it. so boleh angkat terus from our car and letak kat Quinny ZappXtra ni..
tapi nnt bile dia besar sikit, kene beli car seat yg lebih besar la,
takpe, yg ni a good start la for baby =)

ramai sgt org kat expo ni, so kene pandai pilih2 gak,
we seriesly mmg tatau ape2 sgt barang baby, so main beli jer~~
so agak mahal la..huhu so mummy2 out there, study la dulu barang nak beli before pegi baby expo like us keh =P

Beli kat avent semua cam senang nak pilihla.
We bought
1.Newborn starter pack bottles
2.Avent VIA cups for breastmilk storage
3.Avent disposable breast pad
4. Avent Sterilizer
5.First year spinning drying rack
6. Avent bottle warmer

then beli Mami Poko Newborn and S size diapers, and wet wipes.
why Mami Poko we tatau, they say, yg ni bagus and tak bocor, well..we'll see about that yeah =)

Jalan2 expo tu, ternampak pulak this baby rocker,
mmg sgt comel la,
irresistable,
kene beli jugak!
boleh guna sampai toddler..

First baby expo beli tu jer.
2nd baby expo kat Midvalley, mummy hypoglycaemia ramai sgt2 org masa tu, so tak beli ape2...hahhaha,
terlalu letih dgn org yg sgt ramai!

Alhamdulillah berjaya puasa bulan Ramadhan,
and beraya with family~~
at 7months of pregnancy.

makan banyak sgt, and semua org cakap saya dah gemuk...
owh yes, mmg da gemuk...huhu so far i gained 7kilos, for 7months.
hopefully lepas baby lahir, mummy akan sihat balik and exercise keh? keh daddy? heehehe

Selamat Hari Raya from Encik Lebah and Anna =)
Doakan baby and us sihat selamat,and everything goes smooth, amin...=)

p.s i love you.
Praying for you baby to grow well inside me keh.
InsyaAllah.

Alhamdulillah~~our journey to parenthood..:)

Time flies so fast dear, we are nearly 8months pregnant! Alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah syukur Ya Allah~~ i can clearly recall that moment when we just found out that we're pregnant. It was our usual days of jogging and workout, when tibe2 je rasa nak check UPT sebelum naik threadmill..! It was a blur second line on the stick, and i was like, eh negative ni.check sampai tujuh strips for the next few days, and i wasnt late yet, tak percaya sampai last2 bought this clearblue pregnancy test, barulah percaya~~ alhamdulillah syukur, rasa gembira, takut, risau semua ada..tapi Allah Maha Pengasih, maybe dah tiba masa nak jadi parents dah ni kan after 2years plus honeymooning and travel2 dua org je, hihi!

can we be good parents? hari2 risau, fikirkan tiny baby inside me ni..harap dapat jadi parents yg baik, dapat ajar baby jadi anak yg soleh solehah, a good muslim insyaAllah, yg berjaya dunia akhirat, amin..:)

Mummy and daddy think we need to read about whats going to happen in the next 9months so we bought books~! haha..and this one very informative, easy to read, and cantik! hehehe..daddy pun baca!

 

Our baby at 7weeks. with heartbeat. Subhanallah, alhamdulillah~~
We couldnt stop worrying..yela, first time, mesti semua org rasa macam ni kan..takut baby okay ke inside me, growing well ke, insyaAllah, mummy daddy doakan baby sihat sempurna and dilindungi olehNya sentiasa, amin..=)

 

Baby at 11weeks~~
Starting to look more like a baby via ultrasound..
luckily daddy can scan you anytime whenever we rindu you baby, or when we are oncall, and carrying you sana sini, tgk patients! hihi i even scanned myself few times~~ nak buat macamana, dah scan machine ade je kan hehe..

 

Alhamdulillah first trimester, survived without vomiting, ade some giddiness and nausea tapi managable, still boleh oncall 7-8active calls per month that time, tp tersgt lembik, rasa mcm nak tido je kalau boleh~~
Mengidam macam2! 

Spice of India~! Chicken tikka masala and lamb rogan josh!~~
Encik Lebah pun enjoyed makan semua mende yer hihi daddy ni~

Sweet tooth!
Craving for pretty cupcakes~~ and these were from Bisou, KLCC.
Sweet love =)

Daddy pun makan banyak eh?
Nasib tak ikut gained weight macam mummy jgk kan??
hihi Espetada by Nandos~~!

seriesly, mmg mood swings la pregnant ni,
sekejap nak nanges, sekejap happy. hihi pening dgn badan sendiri~believe me, you got no control over your body anymore, its like rollercoster. whoa..i dont even know myself anymore.!
i can become excited, extremely happy, and weepy in the next minute~~
Husband pegi mana2, nak kene pegi jugak, because it feels like macam ditinggalkan bersama baby kalau daddy pegi sorg2. hihi so kursus pun ikut jugak!
yay!

18weeks pregnant and it was a beautiful day in Kuala Terengganu..
I could still fit in this red peplum that time hehe..


Baby getting bigger and bigger, and im getting fatter and chubbier!
Encik Lebah hari2 cakap, Anna dah chubby la, makin chubby la my wife ni, adoi~~ !
I think he enjoys seeing me getting fat! haha, siap cakap, tak pernah nampak Anna camni?! Of course, im pregnant baby! Pregnant lady should look pregnant, tapi supposenya takle too fat keh,
mummy jgn makan ikut perasaan sgt2 keh =)

Baby at 20weeks gestation.
Makin lama makin tak muat screen dah, alhamdulillah,
Ya Allah peliharakanla our baby, sihatkan lah dia, insyaAllah..

Mummy dah rasa baby gerak masa 16weeks okay, mula2 rasa macam ade org jentik2 ihihi, geli!
Pastu rasa macam makin kuat,
rasa macam stomach rumbling pun ade..ingatkan lapar, confuse betul~~
Baby betul2 kick mummy masa 20weeks camtu,
tapi daddy still xle rasa,
tapi rasa sgt bersyukur and happy sbb dapat rasa baby dalam my tummy..
Membesarlah dengan sihat wahai baby ku...=)

 Mummy at 24weeks pregnancy.
Maxi dress from Langkawi.
hihi sempat lagi pegi Langkawi eh, dgn daddy and baby and family.
Pegi Langkawi jalan2 before badan semakin berat like now hehe..
Walking is good for you dear..

Semakin hari semakin penat.
Pregnancy mmg tiring rupanya, hihi rasa macam nak tido jer, baring je..but for baby, mummy kene jadi active keh, supaya baby pun sihat dan kuat insyaAllah~~
At this time, dah anemic dah, Hb pun 10 jer...
penat la daddy beli bayam, Obimin Pluz la, Iberet Folic la, Anmum Materna hihi punya risau sebab dah anemia..~~

Kenape rasa macam cepat je baby membesar ni?
rasa macam baru je tengok UPT positive..
lagila mummy daddy pening nak buat persiapan baby ni~~ taktau where to start!
Yang penting doa..
InsyaAllah, baby growing well inside me, daddy takes good care of us baby,
mummy terharu tgk daddy baca Quran doakan us,
Semoga everything goes smooth~~ amin..

p.s i love you.

will continue this writing later,
hujan lebat,
mummy nak zzzzzz...hihi goodnite everyone.

"I Love you, but how do i like you?"

I love you husband.
we are inseparable.
tapi pernah tak anyone of you guys out there, yang after got married,
We saw flaws up close and personal..
We argued and nitpicked over various things.
Our personality differences began to clash in opportune circumstances.
Our expectations weren’t always fulfilled.
Then you guys kene tahu about 5 love languanges!
Harini entry more about psychology yeah? hehe~~

Discover your love languange!
Kenape semua ni important?
Because we are all different.
We have different personalities.
If you dont know your partner's personality type and expectations then you always get dissapointed.
and this can lead to hilang spark in your relationship la~~etc.

 

I knew about this when i was in Otago, NZ. belum kenal husband lagi hehehe~~
There's a test you can take online, it will give you answer in PDF form.
tryla google, 5 love languanges!

1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
~~anda seorang yang memerlukan kata kata perhargaaan, kata kata yang he loves you and miss you and semua semua pun dia suka kalau partner dia beritahu dia dengan kata kata pujian, macam you cantikla, baju lawala hehehe~
hehe please put everything in words yeah?

 

2. ACTS OF SERVICE
~this is my husband's love languange. haha, dia suka kalau saya masak untuk dia,

nih masakan favourite dier, roasted chicken Anna's version! hehehe~~
 

pastu kene massage dia, buat facial untuk dia, foot spa untuk dia, bersihkan telinga dia euuwwww haha basically sgt manja!
suka acts of service, baru he knows that i love him!
tapi kalau head massage tu, baru 5minit dah tetido ihihi senangnyerrr!!

 this is my big boss haha!



3. RECEIVING GIFTS
~~personality org type ni dia suka sgt hadiah!
hihi senang jer husband dia beli je ape2 dia akan suka. even bunga sekuntum pun takpe, asalkan hadiah!
ape ape pun mesti kene bagi hadiah, fuh penat husband org type ni hihi

hari hari nak hadiah, rasa rasanya ade ke org bagi? hehe

4. QUALITY TIME
~~this is me.
I can think of all sorts of things to do in 24hours.
to me, 5minutes pun important.
kene jumpa husband for quality time together.
hehe ever wonder why i never ever ever do locum?
because to me, every little time i have, is so precious that i need to spend with my loved ones.
and always family first!
and every minute is memory. make it a good one!
so husband saya selalu bawak saya pegi dating and holiday for quality time hehehhee~~

Blue sky holiday pleaseee honeyy??


5. PHYSICAL TOUCH!
~yg ni, semua about touching la. ehem ehem.
love bagi dia ialah physical touch.
tanpa physical touch, bagi org macam ni, macam takde spark la, takde love in the relationship!
hihi ramai tau org macam ni!

So,
bile dah tau your partner punya love languange,
sangat senang for you to make him happy and for him to make you happy hihi~~
Good luck!

p.s mode menunggu husband balik dari oncall.
i love you husband!